So far we've covered what to do to get laid. Get your shit together, and don't hesitate to make it obvious that you do enjoy having sex. These are simple points, but don't let that deceive you. Being comfortable with physical touch alone would increase your success rate by 42.85%. Just kidding. I don't know the actual numbers. I just know that it works.
So now that we've got that part covered, we'll go to the most important part: how do you meet women? How do you go out and starting meeting new women and get them to trust you enough to follow you home?
For most people, "going out to meet new girls" means going out to the clubs, getting a drink, and standing around with drink in hand as other people dance. At the end of the night they'll look for the nearest drunk, wasted girl they could find and try to get her home.
So now that we've got that part covered, we'll go to the most important part: how do you meet women? How do you go out and starting meeting new women and get them to trust you enough to follow you home?
For most people, "going out to meet new girls" means going out to the clubs, getting a drink, and standing around with drink in hand as other people dance. At the end of the night they'll look for the nearest drunk, wasted girl they could find and try to get her home.
Aside from really boring sex, this might also lead to rape accusations in the future. But that said, night clubs are not a bad place to het laid - just not for the reason most people think. For most people, it's easy because there's alcohol involved. The fact is, it's easy because the girl can have her fix of cock without being caught. The whole idea of a one night stand is that she's never gonna see you again. They get to have sex without ruining their reputation as a "good girl". This is also the reason why it's easier to have a one night stand with a total stranger. |
So if the club is not the best place to go, where should you go to meet girls? In my experience, the best way is to join groups of like-minded people. I love philosophy, internet marketing, and self-development. Those are the groups that I look for in my local area to meet people.
The benefits of this is obvious: when you start meeting cute girls in these groups, you'll have something in common. There would be less awkward conversations and the interaction is bound to go very smoothly from one stage to the next.
Of course, you shouldn't join a yoga class just because that's where all the hot chicks are. Find something you're interested in and go meet people there. Because unless you're a psychopath serial killer, chances are you're not good at covering it up, and people will sense that you have a hidden agenda.
Another thing that guys always tell me is, "but the hot chicks are all in yoga class!" Wrong. Hot chicks are everywhere. Even nerd chicks can be really hot (cosplay, anyone?) and if you can find a girl you like in that particular group, go and join another similar group somewhere else. Seriously, unless you stay in a small-ass town of 200 people, you're bound to find the girl you can relate to and would not mind having sex with.
In the end, it's about getting the numbers in. If you don't believe me, consider this:
case A: the ridiculously good-looking dude, who's also really nice, with a sexy voice, sense of style, etc etc, but who is never seen out with a girl ever.
case B: average joe/fat fuck who's really obnoxious and annoying as hell, but who never seem to run out of gorgeous girls to decorate their arms.
What's the difference?
case A dude has a very high closing rate. If he just bothered to go out more and be more casual about sex, he would score ten times more chicks than case B.
But he doesn't so case B gets more ass than he knows what to do with. It's really that simple. Another important thing to note is it doesn't matter how fat you are or how bad your sense of style is, as long as you put in the numbers you're bound to get laid.
Let's look at case B again:
- fat, ugly, obnoxious, funny-sounding voice, not too good in bed. This is really an abnormally bad example.
let's say he has a closing rate is .04%. What does that mean? it means that for every 100 girl he meets and gets sexual with, he'll get to sleep with four of them. It's that simple.
This is the only way to explain why drop-dead gorgeous girls often end up with very average or even below average men in looks, physique, sense of style, etc.
So go forth and meet women. Meet a lot of them, and focus your energies on those who show interest. And remember to use condoms!
The benefits of this is obvious: when you start meeting cute girls in these groups, you'll have something in common. There would be less awkward conversations and the interaction is bound to go very smoothly from one stage to the next.
Of course, you shouldn't join a yoga class just because that's where all the hot chicks are. Find something you're interested in and go meet people there. Because unless you're a psychopath serial killer, chances are you're not good at covering it up, and people will sense that you have a hidden agenda.
Another thing that guys always tell me is, "but the hot chicks are all in yoga class!" Wrong. Hot chicks are everywhere. Even nerd chicks can be really hot (cosplay, anyone?) and if you can find a girl you like in that particular group, go and join another similar group somewhere else. Seriously, unless you stay in a small-ass town of 200 people, you're bound to find the girl you can relate to and would not mind having sex with.
In the end, it's about getting the numbers in. If you don't believe me, consider this:
case A: the ridiculously good-looking dude, who's also really nice, with a sexy voice, sense of style, etc etc, but who is never seen out with a girl ever.
case B: average joe/fat fuck who's really obnoxious and annoying as hell, but who never seem to run out of gorgeous girls to decorate their arms.
What's the difference?
case A dude has a very high closing rate. If he just bothered to go out more and be more casual about sex, he would score ten times more chicks than case B.
But he doesn't so case B gets more ass than he knows what to do with. It's really that simple. Another important thing to note is it doesn't matter how fat you are or how bad your sense of style is, as long as you put in the numbers you're bound to get laid.
Let's look at case B again:
- fat, ugly, obnoxious, funny-sounding voice, not too good in bed. This is really an abnormally bad example.
let's say he has a closing rate is .04%. What does that mean? it means that for every 100 girl he meets and gets sexual with, he'll get to sleep with four of them. It's that simple.
This is the only way to explain why drop-dead gorgeous girls often end up with very average or even below average men in looks, physique, sense of style, etc.
So go forth and meet women. Meet a lot of them, and focus your energies on those who show interest. And remember to use condoms!