How do I get laid? Isn't that the question of the century? The question that is asked so urgently by 90% of the young male population. Most of them students, I might add. The ironic part is that girls are looking for sex too.
Yup, that wasn't a typo. Girls LOVE sex.
So why is it so hard to get them to put out? Because they need to cover their tracks. Girls want 2 things from you:
1) great, mind-blowing sex
2) a guy who can keep item 1) a secret
Oh, they also don't want you to judge them for enjoying sex so mich but for most (immature) guys nowadays, that might be asking too much. So discreet would have to cut it for now.
So how do you get laid? Simple! Just follow these steps:
1) Get your shit together. Priority: moderate. You don't have to look like Brad Pitt and have tons of cash and be the guy every girl wants. Oh, and by the way, the last point in the previous sentence is more powerful than the first two.
But reallly, if you can somehow show the girl that you won't post your "conquest" on Facebook and tell everyone how "easy" she was and just refrain from being an asshole in general, chances are you'll get laid pretty often.
Yup, that wasn't a typo. Girls LOVE sex.
So why is it so hard to get them to put out? Because they need to cover their tracks. Girls want 2 things from you:
1) great, mind-blowing sex
2) a guy who can keep item 1) a secret
Oh, they also don't want you to judge them for enjoying sex so mich but for most (immature) guys nowadays, that might be asking too much. So discreet would have to cut it for now.
So how do you get laid? Simple! Just follow these steps:
1) Get your shit together. Priority: moderate. You don't have to look like Brad Pitt and have tons of cash and be the guy every girl wants. Oh, and by the way, the last point in the previous sentence is more powerful than the first two.
But reallly, if you can somehow show the girl that you won't post your "conquest" on Facebook and tell everyone how "easy" she was and just refrain from being an asshole in general, chances are you'll get laid pretty often.
Secret tip: you might even get referral business! Yep, her friends love sex, too!
2) Be clear that you want sex. Priority: high. This is HUGE. Girls want guys with balls. Most guys mess this up. They want sex but they want the girl to walk up to them, tell them that she's horny, and proceed to strip for them and start sucking... well.. you get the idea.
I have to admit, that's my ideal scenario as well. And that would be HOT as hell if that happened. But let's be realistic here. If you waited for that scenario to play out, you would die 50 years later, alone. Not fun.
If you don't have the confidence to go approach a girl and get sexual with her, you're not alone. We as a society have a culture that judges girls and punishes them for having sex with us, when in reality what we guys desperately want them to do is - you guessed it - have sex with us.
This might be the reason why girls give guys so much shit before putting out. They don't want to be seen as "cheap". Which I think is fair enough. Nobody wants to feel "cheap".
So how do we get around this? Well, unless society changes for the better, we don't. Just portray yourself as a sexual creature who would love to dance between the sheets with her. If you're not the direct, in-your-face, caveman type, here are a few pointers:
- talk about sex casually as though you do it everyday. Show her that you're not desperate for sex, that sex is just something two people who find each other attractive would do when they're horny enough.
- Another good point would be to talk to her like you've already fucked her. Talk to her as if you've met yesterday, you both got along well, and you ended up having mind-blowing sex until the sun comes up. The sex part is already done. No sexual tesnsion, no weirdness/awkwardness from unspoken expectations, just two people talking who will have sex again because it's fun.
- Don't underestimate the above. It's super powerful.
Work on these two points first before moving on.
2) Be clear that you want sex. Priority: high. This is HUGE. Girls want guys with balls. Most guys mess this up. They want sex but they want the girl to walk up to them, tell them that she's horny, and proceed to strip for them and start sucking... well.. you get the idea.
I have to admit, that's my ideal scenario as well. And that would be HOT as hell if that happened. But let's be realistic here. If you waited for that scenario to play out, you would die 50 years later, alone. Not fun.
If you don't have the confidence to go approach a girl and get sexual with her, you're not alone. We as a society have a culture that judges girls and punishes them for having sex with us, when in reality what we guys desperately want them to do is - you guessed it - have sex with us.
This might be the reason why girls give guys so much shit before putting out. They don't want to be seen as "cheap". Which I think is fair enough. Nobody wants to feel "cheap".
So how do we get around this? Well, unless society changes for the better, we don't. Just portray yourself as a sexual creature who would love to dance between the sheets with her. If you're not the direct, in-your-face, caveman type, here are a few pointers:
- talk about sex casually as though you do it everyday. Show her that you're not desperate for sex, that sex is just something two people who find each other attractive would do when they're horny enough.
- Another good point would be to talk to her like you've already fucked her. Talk to her as if you've met yesterday, you both got along well, and you ended up having mind-blowing sex until the sun comes up. The sex part is already done. No sexual tesnsion, no weirdness/awkwardness from unspoken expectations, just two people talking who will have sex again because it's fun.
- Don't underestimate the above. It's super powerful.
Work on these two points first before moving on.